Your discernment is RIGHT. The system IS broken.
Discover Why What You've Been Told About Being YOU is Wrong.
You KNOW something is broken about current identity systems.
After 20 years of research, we've identified the core problem. Everyone is leading with their heads, and not their hearts.
Let's explore the heart tree archetypes together to get to KNOW you, at the heart level first.
Cick to Quick Jump to Sections: Cedar Jobs / Careers | Relationship Dynamics | Signs of Wounded Heart | 4 Stages of Heart Healing | Next Steps
Does this sound like you?
Frustrated by "Obvious" Problems
You see what needs to change so clearly, but others resist or call you "negative" when you point out what's broken.
Fighting Endless Battles
You're always fighting for justice, but battles never seem to resolve. Legal issues, broken contracts, betrayal in agreements that should have been secure.
Are you tired of
being told you are
"TOO INTENSE"
when you are simply passionate about truth??
You See What Others Miss
A truth-teller who sees black and white, calls out compromise
Get frustrated when people resist "obvious" truth
You know what needs to change, but others call you "too intense"
You're Waiting for Recognition
Give your best insights to help others succeed while your calling stays dormant
Feels that "Someone should recognize my gifts" so you wait for the invitation vs. taking the initiative.
Becomes frustrated when your contributions aren't recognized with advancement
Your Passion Sometimes
Becomes Destructive
Truth has been known to become a weapon when you're frustrated
Deflection used to protect yourself and to attack character rather than addressing specific issues
You are known to withdraw in anger when your urgency isn't matched
Relationship Patterns
Always available to rescue family/friends from consequences of poor choices
Create passive-aggressive dynamics - expect mind-reading rather than clear communication
Withdraw emotionally when your potential isn't recognized or nurtured
Feel hurt when others don't automatically support your calling
Internal Patterns
"They really need me.
I can't let them down"
"If I don't help them,
who will?"
"It's selfish to focus on my own development when others are struggling"
"I should be grateful they trust me enough to ask for help"
Sensitive Soft Spot
People have silence you before by calling you "too intense" or "too negative"
Work/Ministry Patterns
Constantly pulled into leadership crises that aren't your responsibility
Give prophetic insights to solve others' problems while your vision stays undeveloped
Work excessive hours serving others' agendas with no investment in your growth
Become indispensable to others' success while your calling remains on the back burner
Feels Supported by
People who love and engage your passion for truth
Does your job/career feel misaligned?
You might be self-protecting your heart.
Not walking in your true heart design creates patterns that prevent your true Cedar passions from flourishing.
Heart healing usually comes FIRST before accurate and long-term career alignment is possible.
Many Cedar hearts "job hop" or feel perpetually misaligned because wounded patterns prevent them from walking in their true design calling.
Where You're Designed to Thrive
Cedar True Design Careers
Executive Leadership: CEO, President, Founder
Social Reform: Civil rights leader, Policy reformer
Media/Communication: Investigative journalist, Documentary filmmaker
Legal/Justice: Civil rights attorney, Constitutional lawyer
Political Leadership: Legislator, Governor, Judge
Business Reform: Turnaround specialist, Ethics advisor
Are doing what you are NOT designed to do?
Job Instability/Fleeing
Chronic job hopping when authority feels "unjust"
Workplace "watchdog" burning bridges
Leaving situations rather than working through conflict
Exploitation Roles
Overworked assistant, Crisis manager for others
Support role hoping for promotion
Building platforms for others while your calling stays dormant
Survival Jobs
Delivery driver, Manual labor - jobs beneath your calling level
Working for others' agendas with no personal development
Do you react like a Cedar?
Relational Dynamics for Cedar Archetypes
How do you react/respond in relationships?
How You Feel When Others...
Pressure you for quick decisions, do you:
become MORE intense and urgent to break through their resistance?
use stronger language or prophetic positioning to pressure compliance?
feel frustrated by what seems like resistance to obvious truths?
Process too slowly, do you:
become impatient with questions or requests for more information?
see their careful approach as resistance to truth or God's will?
make unilateral decisions to force action when patience runs out?
Call You "Too Intense", do you
let it silence your truth-telling gift? (Cedar's soft spot)
withdraw in angry frustration, writing others off as "unteachable"?
feel misunderstood and unsupported in your passion for righteousness?
Understanding how you react in relationships can help confirm your Cedar heart design.
Let's look at how experience restoration occurs within Cedar relationships.
What restores you?
What helps you to let your guard down, feel accepted?
when people love and support your passion for truth?
being given authority to create environments where truth and integrity matter?
giving recognition that your prophetic insights bring needed change and move them to action?
Understanding how you are restored when you are wounded can be a key to confirming your Cedar heart design.
You are sure your Heart-tree is Cedar?
Yes! Here's your book!

Designed for Direct Communication
Unlike other heart types who need extensive background (like Myrtle), your Cedar book gets straight to the point.
Cedar Book Characteristics:
- Short & Direct: No fluff, action-oriented content
- Immediate Recognition: You'll see your patterns instantly
- Biblical Foundation: Isaiah 41:19 framework
- Relationship Guides: Dynamics with all 6 other heart trees
Pre-Order Benefits:
- Cedar-specific generational pattern breaking
- Career transition strategies after heart healing
- Prayer activation protocols
- 20+ years of research condensed into actionable steps
Not sure? Results keep changing?
Every major assessment system (MBTI, Big Five etc) starts with cognitive analysis.
But Scripture provides different operational parameters.
Problem: Identified
Systems are Head-First
"Lean not on your own understanding" - Prov 3:5
When your heart carries unhealed patterns, you cannot accurately assess your mind. You keep trying to do different things, without fixing the heart of the matter.
Let's access your mind through a Healed Heart design.
Solution: Easy
God's Order is Heart-First
"Love God with all your HEART"
This appears 4 times in Scripture,
in both the New and Old Testaments.
The heart is always first, and is listed in distinct order before the mind, body and soul.
Are you walking with a wounded heart?
Many cannot accurately identify their heart tree design while operating under oppressive patterns. From generational strongholds, to trauma and inherited reactions. At Ipseity Approach™, we call this wounded state walking with a "Constrained heart".
Signs you need some TLC for your Heart
Your personality test results keep changing
You feel misaligned in every career you try
Relationships consistently have the same collision patterns
You know something is "off" but can't identify what
It is not your fault though, your heart has been trying to protect you. It was wounded by personal trauma or is carrying generational baggage and strongholds, things that we were never designed to carry.
Many do identify with being in "Constrained heart", and committed to receive RELEASE from those bondages. However, that's only the beginning.
Below is an overview of Cedar's FOUR different stages of Heart Care.
Constrained
Operating under generational strongholds and wounded patterns
Wounded
Cedar
Truth becomes a weapon
Passion becomes destructive criticism.
Released
Beginning to break free from patterns, recognizing your true design. Committed to learning and applying new truths.
Committed
Cedar
Seeing destructive patterns.
Learning the difference between truth and harsh judgment.
Healed
Soul Dynamics are reset: Strongholds, generational patterns and trauma broken.
Surrendered
Cedar
Cedar's ability to deliver TRUTH with wisdom and prophetic with clarity that builds up rather than tears down.
Truth
walking in full restoration, affecting change for supernatural Kingdom impact
Activated
Cedar
Leads self and others in transformational words of knowledge for action that calls people UP to God's standard with love.
Then what happens next it incredible! Alignment.
Sudeenly things start coming into cognative alignment. You mind operates better, you know with clarity the job you will or will not take. You no longer implode or explode when your heart is challenged. You are able to walked HEALED, by the blood of Jesus. Walking in TRUTH, truly sets us free. Once our heads and hearts are in alignment most of the DIS-EASE or Distress within our body releases as well.
But at Ipseity, we know that your body is a huge commonant of your identity. When we do not eat the way our body needs, we can cloud our mind, judgement and be in a different type of constraint. So we work with you on identifying your body type.
The last component of your 4-Part Matrix is your SOUL, yes, this is how you are designed to LIVE our your calling. At Ipseity we call this your Kingdom Impact, or the SOUL LENS, your perspective on the world, and how to make an impact.
Heart Healed
Mind Aligned
Body Balanced
Soul Activated
Still can't decide your archetype?
Apply to work with one of our Ipseity Coaches
Perfect if you
Want to confirm your heart tree type
Understand the flow of Ipseity Approach better
Know what to expect with walking through the program
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Coaching is not free, but we do our best to keep the cost down, as we do value our coaches and your time.
Can't Decide?
Start with the FREE Break Forth Challenge.
Give me a little grace and prayers, as soon as the books are complete, I will be re-launching a FREE CHALLENGE.
Break Forth Challenge Includes
Guided teaching, support and prayers to BREAK FORTH from the 7 Soul Dynamics and 3 Soul Impacts, and learn about all the heart archetypes.
Many people need heart healing before they can accurately identify their type.
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Here's Your Complete Identity Restoration Journey
Most empaths get stuck trying to manage their sensitivity instead of understanding their complete divine design.
The Ipseity Approach™ takes you through all 4 levels so you can finally operate as the
powerful agent of Kingdom transformation you were created to be.
Heart Healed
Break free from generational strongholds that keep you drowning in others' emotions.
Three Programs:
Break Forth Challenge
Last Year Stuck
Personal Heart-Typing
Mind Aligned
Many people discover their true mental personality once their heart is healed, as the heart-head conflict sabotages most ability to assess MBTI questions accurately. See Archetype page.
Body Balanced
Once your heart and heart are aligned, most Dis-Ease auto-corrects.
Discover your MDr type for optimal diet/exercise health plan for energy and strength.
Soul Activated
And finally, season 4, the finale, it is time to step out into your Kingdom Calling without question, knowing your Soul Impact Lens gives you the foundation to go to the nations.
Your Heart Healing Journey Starts Here
You weren't designed to drown in others' emotions.
You were designed to transform pain into healing sanctuary.
First, you must heal your own heart.
The Break Forth Challenge will show you how to break free from generational strongholds and step into your divine design.
Free. Powerful. Life-Changing.
Join thousands who have discovered their true identity through heart-first healing.
I've been professionally administering personality typing tests for over 30 years, and I have never realized what was missing or gained such a deep understanding of myself until now.
This matrix truly gets to the core, the heart of identity, and everyone needs this. WOW!

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